Different age, background, status, etc. so many things are maybe different when two people meet. Which differences would work for relationships and which wouldn’t? Which marriages are stronger where a husband is older or a wife? Would money be a matter in relationships?
10 years of difference. Where a man in his 20th and woman in her 30th. Not so many chances to develop a long lasting relationships because men in such age is usually do not take too serious about relationships. And women in 30th is usually thinking about commitment, family and kids. The remedy. Of course there are exceptions, maybe you met a right young man, but in that case you would probably not reading this article. Take easy, do not push him towards engagement and that sort of thing. If he needs time to grow, then you can’t speed up that process, the speeding will course only more complexes. The great plus in such relationships is you can appreciate his sexual energy and how unjaded he is.
If he is in his 30th and you are in your 20th this combination is much more stable. The men in this age is usually already know to care, to love and to be responsible. They are more ready to get into serious commitment, get married and have kids.
If you have good income and money and he is broke. The chance is very low. That goes from common believe that a man is a family provider, so not all men can cope with such situation when a woman pays for both of them. The remedy is try to appreciate things other than money.
In case he has money and you are on a budget. Such relationships may become successful. Some men appreciate show their affection to a woman and buy things for her and pay for her.
If he is an introvert and you are an extravert. The connection will be so-so. You are very active, love be in the center of attention and events you will wish him to join you in life adventures but will be faces with a great power of introvert personality, which stops people of doing many things in life. So you maybe feeling frustrating and not understand what you did wrong. The remedy. If you really love him be patient with him and try to understand that he needs time to get used to things. If you want to invite him to the party with your friends, then prior that party try to acquaint him with one by one your friend. Once he met a few your friends he will feel more confident and when the day will come and you ask him to join, he will ask a simple question who will be there and you happily can mention those who ne knew already!
He is extravert, you are introvert. Poor chance to stay together. He loves going out and need a good companion to join him. You may feel how he pushes you not allowing a choice, to go or not.